Adult ADD

ADHD       Life with ADD

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ADD occurs in up to 4% of all adults.  Most of them are completely unaware that the difficulties that have plagued them all their lives, have a biological cause, and a name.   Their symptoms will have started at a young age, but have probably gone unrecognised.   Of those children who have ADD, 70% will retain symptoms into adulthood.

Over the years they may have had a variety of symptoms, such as:

Difficulty concentrating (but able to 'hyperfocus' on something that interests them)

Being easily distracted

Daydreaming, or 'tuning out'

Forgetfulness

Feelings of restlessness

Feelings of underachievement

Mood swings

Frustration

Problems with anger control

Disorganised

Needing to be moving in order to think

Blurting out inappropriate remarks

Interrrupting others

Love of hi-tech gadgets, computers etc (high stimulation)

Doing or saying things that they later regret (cause of much embarrassment)

Impulsiveness (in word or action eg spending)

Poor (clumsy?) social or communication skills

Act the clown  (inc actions which they may regret)

Drumming fingers, fiddling, fidgeting etc

Thrill seeking or risk taking

Have lots of 'piles' of work

Lack of follow through

Always in a hurry

Difficulty starting things

Impatience

Losing things frequently

Feelings of failure

Relationship problems

Employment problems (due to all of above symptoms)

 

Many years of being misunderstood take their toll.   They may have been labelled hyper, stupid, clumsy, weird, crazy, rude, abrupt, hot tempered, insensitive, lazy, irresponsible etc.  It therefore comes as no surprise that these people acquire other problems such as 

(figures from the book 'Out of the Fog' = percentage of ADD clinic patients)

Low Self-Esteem  (up to 85%)

Depression (up to 40%)

Anxiety

Addictions (up to 35%) - self-medicating

 

Many sufferers who are now adults did not have the same opportunities of recognition and diagnosis of ADD as the children of today.  Even so, many children can still be overlooked unless they have hyperactivity and behavioural problems.   The very intelligent child may have been able to do sufficiently well in school work, not to raise concerns, particularly if there were no behavioural problems.  They may have done well in primary school, but began to suffer more into secondary school, where the pressure increased and study became more self-directed, and required more organisation.  These perhaps are the people who can still go undiagnosed, often into adulthood. 

Many adults with ADD have adapted to their condition and learned coping mechanisms, such as keeping to routines, management of their time, lists, planners etc.  Tips on coping with Adult ADD

The excellent book 'Driven to Distraction' (written by a Psychiatrist with adult ADD) suggests these Diagnostic Criteria for ADD in Adults

There are  positives - adults with ADD are also described as being driven, highly motivated, creative, very intelligent, full of ideas, imaginative, intuitive, energetic, hard working (especially in hyper-focus) etc.  Many of the world's great achievers are thought to have had ADD, including Albert Einstein, Mozart, Beethoven, John F Kennedy, Winston Churchill, Walt Disney and many others.

 




Books

Adult ADD
Out of the Fog Coping Strategies for Adult ADD
The Hyperactive Child, Adolescent & Adult

Women with ADD

Driven to Distraction

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17 May 2008

 

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